Gorgeous,

Do you feel that you have a lot on your plate, mentally running through your never-ending to-do list and your confidence swings between 5 and 0?

There’s nothing wrong with you.

The truth is, you’ll believe deep down that you’re not enough, and you’re going to look for solutions.

Maybe not immediately, but the more you’ll tolerate feeling this way, the more you’ll believe something else.

You need to have tougher skin and build your confidence.

Yes, once again. Because you already did it.

The problem is, your confidence is an elevated state of energy, it’s present, but you can’t connect with it.

Why? Because the foundations of your confidence are unstable.

And they need to be rock solid

Not based on

external validation

your firefighting skills

overvaluing consensus

Why? Because the moment you stop buzzing like a work bee, your confidence will deflate like a balloon.

The solution?

Self-validation.

You have to be the one to blow your own balloon. You must be your own advocate.

It’s not

being arrogant

bragging

rocking the boat

It’s stopping your intellect and society at large from messing around with your self-belief and self-worth.

How do I know? I went through this confidence mobo jumbo until I had enough to demonstrate that I am worthy, enough of doing this work.

I refuse to let my intellect keep me in overthinking mode, second-guessing myself and let people’s opinions impact my confidence.

What do I choose instead?

To be my authentic self and have standards.

And I’m not the only one.

As Marilyn Monroe said: “we do not have attitude; we have standards.”

You want to build your confidence?

First, REFUSE this mental overload and instead do the inner work to believe in yourself consistently.

Next step, choose your STANDARDS.

Of course, knowing your values, passions, and talents matter.

But at the end of the day, you are the one to choose the STANDARDS helping you to be responsive or reactive – to remain confident no matter what.

The result?

Your confidence will be grounded and unshakeable.

If you want to stop feeling that you’re not enough and be confident to walk into any room, I invite you to book a Rockstar Visibility session: https://calendly.com/gaelle-berruel/coffee-chat

With love,
Gaëlle